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| karend89145 | Posts: 2 | Joined: Aug 22nd | Quote |
| No Avatar | Hi,
My name is Karen I am a single Mom, and I have an 18 year old son who was just in a serious auto accident and I will have to take care of him for 2-3 months while he heals. I have to bathe him shave his body daily while he heals and need to talk to MOM's only about how to best deal with the tough side of seeing my son nude everyday and having to wash and shave his body. He is unable to masturbate due to his injuries and therefore he is always erect when I am washing him and shaving him, I just want to talk to a mom how best to deal with it and such. I started putting a towel over his eyes when I am having to touch him as he would just stare while I was doing it. It is very tough to get him in and out of the tub without getting soaked and I had to start using my large garden tub and wear a bathing suit and bring him into the tub with me to wash him, I started to shave his body on his bed as it is easier to do there with him laying down and keep his eyes covered. It is getting tougher everyday on him and his body tenses up more and more as I have to touch him. I just don't know what to do, I want to talk to mom's that are open and will not judge me for what I am having to deal with which is not anything I expected. I just want to be open and share my thoughts with a mom on what best I can do for him to take care of him. Please send me a privare message to talk more or email me at dwright89145@yahoo.com Please no Men - I want to talk to Mom's only. Thanks, Karen D |
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| RitaM | Posts: 1 | Joined: Sep 5th | Quote |
| No Avatar | Are you still there? I am a 62 yo mother and grandmother that could be of assistance with advise should you be still seeking it. Please reply at your convenience. | ||
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| kerri25 | Posts: 1 | Joined: Oct 1st | Quote |
| No Avatar | I have had similar issues my brother is disabled and needs help the same way as your son. Being in a single parent home mom and I have had to help him andwe both get the same reaction. any questions just ask ddwilson16@yahoo.com | ||
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| sinuv | Posts: 1 | Joined: Oct 13th | Quote |
| No Avatar | hello dear mum,
i just happened to join this group. and saw your post. since it is almost two months i hope that your son is alright now, and capable of taking care of himself. however, since i also had a similar experience last year as my 17 year old son suffered fracture in his arms and unable to do things his own. let me give u few advises. first of all you do have to worry about seeing your grown up son fully nude and erect. after all he is your own son, and you have brought him up through all different stages. you can assure him that there is nothing wrong in being nude in front of you. in fact, i would advise you not to cover up his face as you have mentioned. it would make things more complicated. secondly, at this stage it is better to avoid shaving his body and pubic hair. let it grow. and when you wash his penis, if he is uncircumcised, make sure that you pull the foreskin and clean under it. also since he is not ejaculating, there would be possibility of precum generating. it is so very much important to clean there. also just watch if he gets wetdreams. if so, please clean it up. though i would nt advise, you may casually ask him if he needs a masturbation. if he insists, you can just give him. please write to me if u need more assistance, my email id is sunuvj@gmail.com |
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| momof5inny | Posts: 18 | Joined: Nov 10th | Quote |
| No Avatar | Karen, How are things going for you both? We would like to hear from you. I can not relate to your experience personally but I would like to be here for support for you. Please drop by and let us know how things are going. Corina |
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